Where Do Broken Hearts Go?

I have always asked myself this perennial question whenever I have heartaches.

When you have a tooth ache, you go to a dentist.
When you have cataract, you go to a ophthalmologist.
When you have cancer, you go to a oncologist.

But when you are heart broken, when your girlfriend says we are done, goodbye, its not working anymore, where do you seek comfort? 

One would say, I just take a warm bath to warm my heart and have a good night sleep and then tomorrow I will be fine again.

Or others would suggest, you eat a lot of chocolate so the endorphin in your brain will keep you happy.

Still others will say, come join us to the party, lets take ecstasy and have fun, forget the girl, she does not deserve your love.

These are just short term solutions to a love problem you are having. 

As we all know, problem always has a solution...because if it does not have, then you don't have a problem. 

And if the problem is your face, that is really a problem.

Kidding aside, everyone of us really is plagued by this so called love bug. 

If you know how to love then you should know how to accept defeat or breakdown or frustrations.

In loving, you give up everything, your self, your sexy body, your pride, your time and your effort. But one thing you should not give up is your love for yourself. 

Love for oneself enables you to do self preservation. You don't just give and give or keep on receiving because that is not the essence of loving. It is give and take.

Romantic loving involves two individuals who are attracted to each other because of physical and emotional compatibility. One of the two maybe lacking but most of the time these two go hand in hand.


So to answer the question, where do broken hearts go? 


I have asked one of my closest friends who have loved and fallen and loved again, and she said that "the broken heart remains broken inside you

up until you meet the right person

 in your life who will give part of his hearts to you in order to mend those parts that have been broken. If your heart has been broken by somebody, another somebody will be there to fill it up and mend the gap and take good care of it."

Don't lose hope in loving and finding your true love. Someone or somebody is

. 

Believe, Claim and Destiny will finally lead you there.